Who you suffer with…

Pam and I often get compliments about our relationship.  If you know me, you know its Matt & Pam.  If you know Pam, you know its Pam and Matt.  We are a unit.  A partnership.  In everything.

It baffles us to see couples that live completely separate lives.  Different jobs, we get.  That is what it is.  But when the couple literally have nothing together…we just don’t get it.

We are together on everything.  We talk about everything.  If one of us is suffering, the other one suffers too.

When you suffer with someone, when you struggle through tough times and ordeals…the bonds are made even stronger.  And the bonds make the good times even better.

Want a good marriage?  Be a team.  In everything.  Talk.  About everything.